Winter in Manhattan Odyssey: Final Weekend

            "Friendship is always a sweet responsibility, never an opportunity."
                                                                   Khahil Gibran

                      
                                   Well, it was hard to believe but my Winter in Manhattan Odyssey was at it's end!  And, I am absolutely thrilled that I gave myself this gift especially as it was such a wicked winter.  I was planning on flying down to NYC Friday after work, but thankfully I am able to watch the manifest numbers and saw  that my chances on getting on the flight stand-by were slim to none.  So, back to my good old Megabus.  Managed to jump on an earlier bus than planned and got to “my apartment” earlier than I would have had I flown.

Rosa Mexicano, photo courtesy of their website

                Decided to treat myself to a nice dinner, owed it to myself after another long week at work.  Went over to Rosa Mexicano on the corner again as I had a craving for Mexican.  Got a lovely small carafe of white sangria, and a wonderful tasty dinner with the fish of the day.  Not even sure what kind of fish, but a meaty white filet cooked in an aromatic tomato based sauce.  Got home just ahead of Roomies and chatted for a bit.

The Garage Flea Market, photo courtesy of their wbsite

                                K and I had planned on getting a bite to eat Saturday before she went to work.  Lazy morning, and made plans to head to K’s apartment in late afternoon.  So, off I went to do some shopping, first in the neighborhood to pick up a few things I had bought at a small gift shop the week before (I try to frequent smaller local shops when I can as they need our money more than anybody right now..sometimes that’s hard though cause they’re usually more expensive..), TJ’s, and Bed Bath and Beyond.  Then I headed over to the Garage Flea Market in Chelsea (an annex of the Hell's Kitchen Flea Market on W 25th St. between 6 & 7 Avesnues) where I found a treasure for a friend.                                                                 

Over to K’s to give her the Bed Bath and Beyond finds for her bed, then off to dinner at Artisinal again.  It was delicious, but the service was frustratingly slow that night.  (Been having bad experiences with poor service at restaurants lately, in New York and at home, and I really am not that fussy.)



Cheese fondue @ Artisinal, photo courtesy of their website



        K went off to work and I headed to the UES to see “The Complete Works of William Shakespeare, Abridged” that Roomie was stage managing.  It was thoroughly zany and entertaining.  Home we went for my last night in “my” Manhattan apartment.  I left Roomie and Daughter to chill together and retreated to my room. 

Flea Market Cafe

                K and I met at the Flea Market Café for brunch and a lovely young Lady from K restaurant joined us. I am glad that my Girls know I am pretty opened minded and will accept them as they are and also accept any Person they want to bring into our lives.  It saddens me when I meet so many young people whose Families wouldn’t accept their lifestyle, or their sexuality, or whatever or whomever they want to be.  As I explained to the Girls in the past year, I will love them, respect them, and support them no matter what, short of becoming a mass murderer.  At that I draw the line.

                       K and I then treated ourselves to mani-pedi’s (one of the few things to be had in NYC relatively cheaply!)  K then headed up to New Haven, and I went home to finish packing up my winter apartment.  Roomie and I visited, and I gave her a true Boston gift, a cobalt blue Cod Pitcher from Shreve Crump and Low as a keepsake and huge thank you for opening up her home, and heart, to me.  I truly came away from my Odyssey with so much more than I had planned, or anticipated! I am blessed!

                        I saw, explored, and ate at so many of the places I had wanted to.  There are still so many more that I want, need, to see.  I will.  And, now I even have a small, but wonderful network of my own in Manhattan!  My Odyssey did not cure my dream of living in Manhattan.  I would in a heartbeat.  But, I know for a certainty that it is Manhattan I want to live in, and for that much money is needed to do it comfortably.  So, for now this will suffice.  Again, I am blessed.

Winter in Manhattan Odyssey Weekend Eight: Saturday and Sunday

Chelsea Market from Ed U

            "Wine is sunlight held together by water." 
                                         Galileo

Hells' Kitchen Flea Market from Sandra Y

      Saturday woke up to a lovely sunny day, and ventured out at around noon. Headed down and over to the Hell’s Kitchen Flea Market (39^th between 9^th and 10^th) and poked around.  Didn’t find any treasures that day.  This Flea Market is an awesome place for vintage clothes and tons of costume jewelry, vintage and otherwise. So, I headed instead to the Chelsea Market.  I love that so many cities, large and small are turning old abandoned warehouses into something.  In this case, the Chelsea Market  (9 Ave between 15 & 16 Streets ) is a mishmash of shops, restaurants, pickup foods, and popup shops, usually sample sales of some sort.  (Sample sales in NYC are a thing to behold, since it’s the fashion mecca of the US.)     

The Green Table from Jando S

            I was in the mood for a nice sit down lunch and The Green Table caught my eye, and I’m glad it did.  It is a “sustainable” restaurant in that it uses and sells truly local (NY State area) foods and wines.  It was delicious, tough decision on what to eat, and the Bartender guided me to some great selections.  I started with a Bellini using locally made juice and Prosecco.  I then had lamb sliders with a lovely glass of Sauvignon Blanc, finishing lunch with an apple-almond tart and rosemary ice cream and coffee.  Awesome. 

                While I ate I watched  the Bartender who so kindly helped me in my food choices.  She was great at what she did.  For the millionth time I started questioning what I wanted to be when I grew up.  Blah, Blah…As the restaurant got quieter She and I started to chat.  Something new in NYC, she was an artist!   Grew up in Maine, went to the Boston Conservatory, hit the Big Apple to make her way, did it for a few years, went to Florida, came back to Manhattan with her screenwriter boyfriend for another go around.  Now she has decided to teach theatre to children as well as work on her own craft.  Everytime I start to worry about K, I meet someone who proves to me that it is absolutely worth going for the dream.  It’s wonderful to have the gumption, guts, and fortitude to “go for it”.

View from The Highline

The Highline

          I then poked around some of the shops and sample sales before heading out and onto the Highline.  Another brilliant, and beautiful idea.  The Highline is a new, and still being developed, park built on a raised railroad track that runs along the West side affording beautiful views of the Husdon River on one side and what feels likes an insider's view of some really wonderful buildings on the right side. 

The Hotel Chelsea from Wikipedia

         I followed the Highline to its present end at 20^th and continued to 23^rd heading to my Wine 101 class that K had given me for Christmas.  As I walked along 23^rd eastward I literally bumped into the Hotel Chelsea.  I knew of this Hotel as it has famously housed so many artists, literary, music, and otherwise over the years…Dylan Thomas, Tennessee Williams, Bob Dylan..so many.  (What is really kind of interesting, coincidental, weird, is that I started reading “Just Kids” by Patti Smith a couple of days after this and so much of her life with Robert Mapplethorpe center around her life with him at the Hotel Chelsea!  One of my favorite scenes of the book is when she describes walking into the restaurant attached to the Hotel and already there were Janis Joplin and her Entourage, Jimi Hendrix and a Girl, Grace Slick and the rest of Jefferson Airplane.  All there were getting ready to go to upstate New York for a festival in a little town called Woodstock..WOW…)



NYC Wine Class, photo from their website

 

                On I walked until I got to the site of my Wine 101 Class.  I was the Oldest, and only single, person there.  But, it was a great night.  The space was beautiful.  Andrew Harwood  started the School and was very fascinating, smart, and brave.   I forget where and what he studied for undergrad, but did study in the Hotel Restaurant Program at Cornell for graduate school.  Heading to Europe to explore after graduation, he worked in a vineyard in Hungary, then France, then back on US soil in California, and came back to the East Coast and started NYC Wine Class (167 West 23rd Street. 212-647-1875) in 2004.  Brilliant, and enjoyable.  Highly recommended.  Thanks K!

               Stopped into the Gingerman to personally thank K, visited for a bit.  Then went home, visited with Roomie, and hit the hay!

              Sunday was a simple day.  I have lost the need to be constantly going while here!  A patient who used to live and work in Manhattan (and kept her apartment on the UWS..I want it!!) told me that New Yorkers don’t do what I do.  I told her that, of course, they don’t have to get it all in in three months like I’m trying to!  But, I will say that I’m proud of the fact that I have inspired my Roomie and her Partner to get out and take advantage of their city more, and partake of some of the endless opportunities, and “stuff” that New York offers!  That being said, K and I met at Café Jule, the wonderful little place just around the corner from me, for brunch.  I then went home to her place and hung out till it was time to catch my Megabus.  (It is amazing how you can feel a bit like being in a cattle call with them, especially in New York as you wait in a parking lot, literally.  The Megabus workers keep pretty good control of the chaos, and as a young Englishman noted with his charming accent, we got what we paid for, didn’t we?!)

Winter in Manhattan Odyssey Weekend Eight: Friday Evening

           “The world is a book and those who do not travel read only one page.”
                                                                           St. Augustine
      

The JP Morgan Library, phot from their website

 After the tour, I finally made my way to the JP Morgan Library (Madison and 36th Street).  It is free on Friday evenings from 7-9 pm.  I had read about a Shakespeare exhibit beign held.  It also has a tremendosu collection af art as well as the library.  I also found an interesting exhibit of art from a private collection belonging to a Fashion Designer.  The piece I found most interesting was by the Cuban photographer Abelardo Morrell.  (My family has a personal connection to him, so that was a treat.)
      

John Newton's Amazing Grace, photo from the JP Morgan website

            I then wandered upstairs and saw an exhibit called "Diaries".  I initially walked away, but decided to turn around and go in.  I am so glad I did as it turned into another OMG experience.  There were diaries from a myriad of people from throughout history!  Albert Einsteins' mathematical musings done during his first trip to Japan.  Nathaniel Hawthorne, EB White, Charlotte Bronte, Mark Twain, a witness to the Boston Tea Party, and so many more.  Thrilling and remarkable!

William Shakespeare, photo from JP Morgan's website

          Finally down to see the Shakespeare exhibit.  It was focused on a "newly discovered" portrait that is believed to be one of the only ones done while William was alive, and that he may have actually sat for.  Oh, to listen to the pseudo Intellectuals spewing, was almost worth the price of admission! (0$ for that evening!)

            Completed by day with a quick stop at The Gingerman (right around the corner) tos chat with K and have a glass of the Frambois that I learned to love.

               

Winter in Manhattan Odyssey Weekend Eight: Friday

“We live in a wonderful world that is full of beauty, charm and adventure. There is no end to the adventures we can have if only we seek them with our eyes open.” – Jawaharial Nehru

                  Another tough couple of weeks, stayed home last weekend, and looking forward to getting back to Manhattan as it seem spring may finally have sprung, so it will be nice to explore in warmer weather.  Got on Megabus late after work on Thursday.  These late night buses are kind of nice as they’re less crowded, and quiet as most people, myself included, tend to crash.  Got “home” and climbed into bed around 2:30 a.m.

                Alarm set for 8:30 as I had to be in Greenwich Village by 11:00 for a Foodie Tour of Brooklyn.  Except for walking across the bridge and having pizza at Grimaldi’s in DUMBO, I had not explored much of Brooklyn and wanted to.  I figured this would be a good taste of Brooklyn, literally and figuratively.  A nice group of people were already on the small bus when I arrived.  Isaac our Guide, and the driver quickly got us underway.  Isaac was a great host and guide having grown up in Brooklyn, he knew a lot of anecdotes and history.  I found this tour on www.Goldstar.com. , actually, so I got it for a great price (about half off!).  It’s given by the Fun Tours Company, and this tour was called “The Best of Brooklyn Multicultural Food Tour.”  www.NewYorkFunTours.com  claims that “a trip to Brooklyn is like a trip around the world”.  And, it set out to show us just what that meant. 

from Urban K

Our first stop was actually on the LES (Lower East Side) on Houston Street at one of the oldest Jewish knish places in the city, Yonah Schimmel (on E Houston between 2nd Ave and Chrystie St).  Wonderful.  (I felt pretty with it as I had found this place on my own years ago, and had bought knishes for breakfast on Wild Berry Traveling’s first and only private tour of New York City.  (A small company, Wild Berry Travelling!, I founded the year my Daughter, K, graduated from college to try and fulfill my dream of travel.  Alas, I never had the time to really make it work, and then the economy crashed anyway……I am still the go to for many friends and family when they do travel, especially to New York City.) 

Brooklyn Bridge Park from Michelle W

                After having our Jewish delicacies, we headed over the Williamsburgh Bridge into Brooklyn. We travelled along Bedford Avenue, the main thoroughfare in Brooklyn.  We drove through a Hassidic Jewish neighborhood, feeling like a step back in time.  We went into DUMBO (Down Under Manhattan and Brooklyn Bridges) and meandered into Brooklyn Bridge Park.  And, we ended our Brooklyn journey at Sunset Park.  Tasting delicious foods and learning interesting tipdbits all day.  I never knew how large and varied Brooklyn is.  It was a great tasting tour in every way.

Sunset Park from Yin Y

             As always, I met and enjoyed many of the people on our tour.  In particular was a Lovely Lady ,who in a divorce many years ago ended up with her Children, and an apartment on the Upper East Side.  Upon hearing of my Odyssey, she asked if I would be interested in her apartment.  After renting her Pied a Terre for many years, she took the opportunity to keep it this past year, and “shared” it with two others.  She asked if I’d be interested in being part of that arrangement in the next year.  After much thought, I had to regretfully decline, as this Odyssey was an awesome, but very extravagant gift to myself.  Perhaps in the future…(I did stay in her place this past August for a weekend, though, to see K in a sing-through of a rock opera!)

               

Winter in Manhattan Odyssey Weekend Seven: Sunday

        “Travel, in the younger sort, is a part of education; in the elder, a part of experience.” 
                                                               Francis Bacon

Woke up to expected rain, read for awhile, a bookclub book that is definitely speaking to me, “The Gift of an Ordinary Day” by Katrina Kension.  Then decided to head up to the Whitney Museum (on Madison Avenue @ 75th Street) for awhile.  Being a rainy Sunday meant I was not alone in that decision, but it was a nice couple of hours.  A special exhibit of Edward Hopper and his friends was great.  The MFA had a huge exhibit of his work a few years ago, but there many works at the Whitney (many actually at home at the Whitney) that I had not seen before, including a lovely piece of the Queensboro Bridge right next to “my” apartment!

Edward Hopper's "Queensboro Bridge"

from Sarah K

Walked home, getting caught in a heavy rain shower, but it was mild temperature wise so kind of nice.  Grabbed my book from the apartment and went next door to the Bistro Vendome, again for a $25 prix fix brunch.  I had a nice glass of wine, potato leek soup, and mussels merniere.  Delicious.

As always, the weekends go far too quickly, so back in a cab to the DYAS bus at Grand Central for the ride to JFK, to wait for my delayed flight home.

Winter in Manhattan Odyssey Weekend Seven: Saturday

      "Of all the means to ensure happiness, by far the most important is friendship."  Epicurus

Met Photograher Friend in “our” lobby, and jumped in a cab together to the West Village.  She loves going to these gallery tours, and with Everyone’s crazily busy lives, often goes alone.  I was thrilled and delighted to join her as this was a “to do list” of mine, but it was daunting.  What made me feel good, and comfortable, was that even She feels it can be daunting and she’s an Artist.  Another wonderful afternoon and the weather was very co-operative as well.

Rafael Risemberg is a treat and his tour was amazing.   What is truly incredible is that Rafael started doing these for the love of it, and recently gave up a tenured teaching position at a New Jersey college to dedicate himself to this adventure full-time!  I keep meeting these amazingly brave people, perhaps it will eventually rub off on me?!  This particular tour was through the West Village and SoHo.  It was his first tour in the West Village.   (http://www.nygallerytours.com/.  212.946.1548 )

So much of Manhattan and its neighborhoods keep changing, much in direct correlation to the economy.  I can remember when SoHo became the haven for artists about 3o years ago due to its having decayed, but the spaces where open, and lent themselves beautifully to artists’ needs: cheap, big spaces with great light.  Then it became THE place.  Today on a Saturday afternoon it’s pretty tough to navigate the sidewalks with the crowds, locals and tourist alike, shopping.

With the shops, cafes, and tourists came the gentrification that forced Artists up to Chelsea, where there are around 300 galleries.  Unfortunately that neighborhood now is forcing many artists to the last bastion of “affordability” the Lower East Side.  So, actually, now it’s possible to find Galleries in neighborhoods all over Manhattan, which makes a gem like Raphael all the more valuable.

Being the extrovert that I am, I always end up chatting with People.  Our group this day was rather large, around 40 people.  But, before we started I had a lovely chat with a Canadian Woman who had just returned from working with an NGO in the Congo for three years.  She’s on a bit of a sabbatical until she settles into her next adventure.  My only regret is that I didn’t get her information, as she was truly interesting, and my thoughts are personally headed in that direction? (in dream shape at this point..)

             Another Lady I ended up chatting with a bit used to work w Tim Zagat and they’re the brainchildren behind “Restaurant Week”!  She now works for “Hillary”, in an Ambassador type program to make America friendly to the rest of the world.  I do have her info, and I will be getting in touch!

After the tour, Photographer Friend and I met up with her 16 year old Daughter for a bit of shopping and a bite to eat.  They’re both delightful and fun company!  Then we jumped in cab for the ride home.

Roomie was home when I got there with Partner, and the Teens were out and about.  We had a wonderful chat.   These are definitely erasing the business relationship and forging what I feel is a wonderful, deep friendship.  Ended up just hanging in for the evening, drinking Prosecco, eating crackers and cheese, and getting to know, and care for my New Friends more and more.  Great night.

Winter in Manhattan Odyssey Weekend Seven: Friday

    "Follow your bliss and the universe will open doors for your where there were only walls."    
                                                            Joseph Campbell
                  
                 Last couple of patients cancelled Thursday so I headed over to South Station to try and get on an earlier Megabus than the 9:30 one I was booked on.  I stopped by the desk to change my ticket and the young woman told me to just talk to the bus driver.  (I had missed buses in the past, and gotten on earlier..if there’s a seat, they’re usually very kind about it.)  Well, the 6 pm Bus Driver was not.  He denied three of us getting on early, there were seats available.  I was not pleased and shot off an email to MegaBus.  The 7pm Driver was kind, and let a few of us on who had booked later buses.  When I got “home” to NYC that night, I was grabbing a very late bite to eat, chatting with Roomie, and saw that MegaBus had responded to my email already.  I sent another thanking them, and commented on the courtesy and kindness of the second Driver.  They in turn thanked me for that and said it would be put into his file!  (MegaBus still continues to impress me.)
             Friday, woke up to sunshine, had coffee, showered, and decided to treat myself to a lovely lunch!  I had a lovely brisk walk across town, by the Park, to Central Park West.  I decided I deserved to check out Jean George (considered one of the best Chefs in the world).  His restaurant is located in the Trump Tower and Hotel. It amazes me that in the worst economy in our lifetime many very expensive places are flourishing.  The restaurant opened at 12:30pm.  I walked in through a gorgeous entry with vats of floating yellow chrysanthemums, to find the restaurant totally full.

 I made a reservation for an hour later and meandered over to the Time Warner Center, poked around some stores (bought some lovely Christmas gifts for the Girls!), and thoroughly enjoyed a Dali exhibit.  Not necessarily a fan usually, but these were large sculptures, and yes one of his big fat men was included…but included were some incredibly beautiful ones.  My favorite was a Dancer with her dress of two layers flowing.  I learned that Dali was a fan, and patient, and then friend of Freud, and a sculpture was included of his commemoration of their relationship.

Daytime @ Jean George from Stevie M.

Back to Jean Georges, and sat at the bar.  They offer a three course lunch for $30.  A deal in even a “regular” restaurant, and, I must say a bargain here.  The tuna tartare rivals my former favorite at the Modern at the MOMA (Museum of Modern Art), followed by slow cooked skate served over black beans, avocado, and a great sauce, and totally filling me up was blood orange pana cotta.  Wonderful.

Becoming an expert on my Iphone, I discovered a movie theatre close by on Broadway showing “The Fighter”, so off I went.  Another movie that Everybody said was excellent, and I must agree.  I always love seeing films based and filmed in Boston.  And, surprisingly, I have many connections to this movie, albeit a bit removed.  My Co-worker's cousin casted the Sisters and her close friend  is one of the producers!  One of the sisters is the Daughter in law of one of my Mom’s oldest friends.  Fun movie not so much, but moving, and excellent.

I had planned on heading to the Morgan Library and popping into the GIngerman to see K.  But, Roomie had texted me an invite to her Neighbor and Friends’ for dinner.  Not really hungry, but grateful for the thought, and the opportunity, I went.  Friend is a photographer who does a lot of NYC events, and celebrities (check out her website: www.twinimages.com.),  and her Husband is an ad executive at Ladies Home Journal.  Very interesting, and enjoyable.  An hour or so after we came home, Friend called to invite me to a gallery tour tomorrow!