Sunday, April 3, 2016

Pura Vida: Santa Teresa

Getting over a painful experience is much like crossing monkey bars.  You have to let go at some point in order to move forward.”
C.S. Lewis

Meeting my Yoga comrades at the San Jose airport, we were shuttled to a smaller airstrip across the city.  Then ushered to a very tiny plane one of us had to be copilot, I drew the lucky straw!  A short flight brought us to tiny Tambor airport and we were then taken by van to our home for the week in Santa Teresa.  Casa Marbella.

Oh, my, the long dusty trip was worth it!  After getting settled, we met on the beautiful yoga deck for our first, of many, yoga classes for the week.   Our yoga instructors, Caprice Abowitt and Ikaika Regidor of Sacred Sounds Yoga were wonderful.  Sunset cocktails, followed by a delicious dinner made with amazingly fresh ingredients by ever smiling and giggling Lohanna and her cohort Jesus, a late-night soak in the infinity pool…this is just what the doctor ordered!

Most mornings we woke to do a yoga class, greeted by our resident Iguana, sometimes our monkey! followed by one of Lohanna’s and   Jesus’ gorgeous breakfasts.  Then a few hours to play.  One day Lohanna treated us to a cooking class, empanadas, awesome!  The walk up and down the hill to the “bustling” town of Santa Teresa and the beach validates any of the ice creams or other treats we enjoyed.  Playing in the surf was like being a kid again.  Early morning walk with an almost deserted beach.  Oh, the ocean anywhere, this the Pacific, creates such gorgeous healing.  Don’t you think?!

Each late afternoon had us loving more yoga; sometimes playfully in the pool, once at sunset on the beach with a healing meditation.  From that perfect Valentine’s Day experience, we took a very long walk to a weekly Beach Party.  With the light of a bonfire, all ages
danced to the pounding of techno music, but for me, lolling on a surf board with others who also didn’t love techno was lovely.
 

Nina planned some fun excursion for us as well.  One very early morning had us meeting Andy and his champion wife Edyth of Freedom Riders for a paddle board lesson.  A few hours of playing, practicing, and getting it! was a great and fun workout.  Being the Mom of this group, as I am almost everywhere these days, my new friends were quite impressed.  (Regrettably, I can’t seem to get ahold of the pictures to prove that I did it!)

Another day had us being vanned to Montezuma, another dusty beach town on the Caribbean side of Costa Rica for zipling!  This being one of my big bucket list items, I was like a child again filled with excitement.  That started to dissipate with the safety lecture, given by a guide who clearly spoke only enough English to give the safety talk.  (Memories of all those white water rafting safety talks over 20 years.  No matter how many times I went, listened to a dear friend give that lecture, my heart always pumped with an overload of adrenaline.  So I could do this!!).  Well, let’s just say, I can laugh about it.  It’s a great story to be told in person over wine.  But, the experience brought up and out many old triggers, including feelings of humiliation and anger.  The swim at the waterfalls was awesome.

A great Costa Rican lunch in the little beach hamlet of Montezuma   As we got up to meander around town for a bit, there was a ruckus in the trees.  Monkeys!  Lots of monkeys came to play and entertain us.  Yes, I believe there was hand-clapping, perhaps even some jumping up and down on my part.  I was so excited.  When Nina handed me a banana to feed one of the monkey and it smiled into my eyes as it greedily grabbed it; I thought I’d explode.  Humiliation dissolved and forgotten (almost)..
started to wash away the not great experience.


The special people I met; the experiences and meals we shared; talking for hours at our dining room table; the sunsets, the yoga, the beach.  Oh, so grateful, as it was truly a much needed respite.         Namaste. 

Thursday, February 25, 2016

Pura Vida: Arenal Area

"Character cannot be developed in ease and quiet.
Only through experience of trial and suffering can the soul be strengthened,
ambition inspired, and success achieved."
                                                               Helen Keller

 Oh boy, just when a certain amount of peace, contentment, and acceptance had been achieved, Life hit the fan, yet again.  The past six months have been a quagmire of “stuff’ to say the least.  Thank God, I have learned to live one day at a time (most of the time), and believe that “This too shall pass.”  I will say that I am proud of myself.  Yes, that feels good.  And, to quote a certain lady, I have conducted myself with grace and dignity (most of the time).

Healing…has become a way of life it seems.  A dear family member has found that her writing is bringing her comfort (and it has been beautiful and poignant).  I, on the other hand, seemed to have lost my voice.  I am determined to rediscover it.  Much of yesterday was spent writing, and I cannot find it anywhere.  So, here I go again…

Watching from afar my Ladies meet (somewhat at the last minute) in Marrakesh! for a yoga retreat filled me with comfort and joy.  I wanted some of that.  I had been chatting with a Lady about a yoga retreat she was organizing in Costa Rica (a bucket list dream place).  I couldn’t “justify” it.  Nina reached out again on a particularly tough day.  You know what?  Sign me up!  And she did!  (Thanks in large part to Santa Claus and JetBlue).

Nina Orenstein, founder and owner, of Paraiso Adventures organizes, orchestrates, and executes amazing retreats.  I can now lovingly say that from experience.   And, after some chats she helped me in planning a few days before the retreat to explore another part of Costa Rica by introducing me to Erick Zelaya of Volcano Lake Adventures.

Flying standby is a bit like gambling (which I rarely do).  Waiting to get on the plane is nerve-wracking.  But when you get called and get that seat, exhilarating!   Arriving in San Jose after two flights, to warmth and sunshine, was a boon to the soul.  Walking amongst hundreds of cabbies hawking their services and finding a kind looking man holding a sign with my name on it, the cherry on top.

Edwin and I had a lovely two+ hour drive from San Jose to La Fortuna in the Arenal Volcano area.  He speaks very little English.  I speak very bad Catholic high school Spanish with a Boston accent.  It was lovely.  Edwin pointed out the sugar cane, the pineapples, the papayas, the coffee plantations.  We came upon fields and fields of lush green pastures and many vaca, con leche. (indeed the area produces a lovely cheese from these cows).  It was reminiscent of the road to Hana on Maui in Hawaii and Ireland, sometimes at the same moment.

From balcony: Arenal Volcano
A smiling Erick and his assistant Rick were there at Hotel Central Loft to great me.  After a quick settle in, I hungrily went down to the rowdy restaurant bar to get something to eat.  The Super Bowl was playing.  How oddly comforting to go to another country for the rituals of home.  I had my first simple, healthy Costa Rican dinner of tilapia, rice and beans, salad, and friend plantains while chatting with a lovely Lady from Portland Maine!

My first pool of the day
My last pool..
Usually when I travel, half the fun is in the planning.  This time, I put myself into the hands of Nina and Erick, and they planned a wonderful trip that was so good for my body and soul.  Being in the rain forest, I expected wet.  That is exactly what I got.  But that did not hinder my explorations.   Day 1 in Arenal had me at the Baldi Hot Springs Resort.  It was a great relaxing day, with a few hours spent at the Spa having a massage and pedi.  The Buffet Dinner was actually pretty good.  I came home content and rested.  It was lovely, but man-made utilizing the hot springs abundant in the area

Iguanas

Day 2 Eric had me on a wildlife “safari” of sorts to the Cano Negro Wildlife Refuge very close to the Nicaraguan border.  (Why does just saying that still bring fear to me?  It’s clearly not new that our media can instill this…).  It was interesting and we saw huge iguanas, a sloth doing what he does best at the top of a tree-sleeping, many beautiful birds,  Caimon crocodiles, and my favorite..monkeys..white-faced (Capuchian), howler, and spider.  Another simple, healthy lunch was included shared with nice Dutch ladies making for a lovely expedition.

Day 3 in the Arenal area was started lazily reading (so delighted I can do this again, as my attention-concentration has been difficult for that in recent years..Harry Potter has helped in the cure) then meeting with a group for an easy hike in the Arenal National Park.  We explored the Observation deck of the volcano, hiked into a beautiful waterfall (wish I hadn’t already been soaked and cold as I so wanted to play), then the piece de resistance… real natural hot springs by candlelight sharing shots of moonshine.  That’s what I’m talking about!

Erick was all smiles greeting me as I was dropped off, wet and happy. After a warm shower I crossed the street to thoroughly enjoy fresh guacamole and ceviche (both of which are popular and plentiful in Costa Rica) and live Reggae.  Perfect end to a great day.

Early the next morning a sweet smiling young man, Luis, came to pick me up for the ride back to San Jose where I was to meet my Yoga retreat comrades.  Half way to the city, Luis informed me he was Edwin’s son.  Wonderful!  As his English was better than my Spanish, we had a lovely ride.  Next stop: Santa Teresa for Paradaiso’s Yoga Retreat!